This morning Grace put on a new pair of pants. I thought they looked just fine. Well...to get to my frustrations, Grace found me moments after putting the outfit on to tell me she thought her pants made her look fat! She was upset. Of course, she looked great! Urrrggghhh! A first grader saying this just kills me. This isn't the first time shes commented negatively about her own appearance, so I guess that is why I'm so bothered. She worries about her hair, freckles, and other things too. I'm sure this is normal to a point; but I do blame society a bit for emphasizing material things so much.
I don't want her to place so much emphasis on clothes and looks! We try so hard to teach our kiddos that clothes don't matter and money is spent better elsewhere! Making memories and spending time together and treating people nice are the things that do matter. Don't get me wrong, I love a cute outfit now and then. However, I don't want my kids to worry about what they look like or have clothes effect their opinion of themselves.
Okay..I'm done ranting!